Real Friends

Real Friends by Shannon Hale is a memoir about the author’s own experience navigating friendships in elementary school. This graphic novel perfectly captures the highs and lows many young girls experience in their upper elementary years in school, trying to find real friends who accept us for who they are. It’s a delicate balance of understanding and acceptance along with being true to yourself.

One of the most powerful lessons I learned about friendship in middle and high school was that just because someone was your best friend at one point in time does not mean they will be your best friend forever. That being said, just because someone is no longer your best friend, does not diminish the important role they played in your life and vice versa at that time.

As an elementary school teacher working with 4th graders, I wish this was a lesson I could just transfer to my students, particularly the girls, through osmosis. I watch it happen each year and know that other than encouraging students to be kind to one another, even as their friendships drift apart at times, it’s something they have to experience for themselves.

One powerful characteristic of the protagonist Shannon is her willingness to branch out and make new friends even though time and time again it does not work out well. She keeps putting herself out there and learns to stand up for herself and what she believes will be fair.

Shannon learns that friends can act one way one-on-one and then treat you differently when they are around other peers, particularly when popularity and clique behaviors are at play.

 

Real Friends has a powerful message. It teaches about hope and resilience during a difficult time in the transition from childhood to adolescence. It does not sugar coat the complex emotions kids feel and how important friendships become to them in their everyday lives.

I would recommend this books for students in grades 4-7. Real Friends is a level S text. Click here to purchase a copy of Real Friends by Shannon Hale (affiliate link).

 

Mighty Jack and the Goblin King

Mighty Jack and the Goblin King by Ben Hatke is an adventure filled retelling of the childhood classic Jack and the Beanstalk. Jack’s little sister Maddy was carried into another realm by an ogre. Jack and his friend Lilly bravely follow them through a portal into an unknown world of magic and terrifying creatures.

Though they begin the journey together, Jack and Lilly are quickly separated. Jack must choose whether to follow Lilly or to continue his pursuit of the ogre that kidnapped Maddy. The reader follows both characters through their parallel stories in their quest to save Maddy and themselves.

The character Lilly was a personal favorite as I read Mighty Jack and the Goblin King. It quickly becomes apparent that Jack is an impulsive and brave character, and if the two stayed together, Lilly would be the more cautious sidekick. The decision to separate the duo allowed Lilly to evolve as a character and to shine in an unexpected way. She is clever and emerges a leader.

Left to his own devices, Jack learns to be less of an act now, think later kind of character. He is protective of his sister Maddy who is on the Autism spectrum.

Ben Hatke skillfully blends adventure and fantasy in this second installment of an awesome graphic novel series. He continues to tackle important social issues including diverse family structure as well as different abilities.

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*I received a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for my honest and open review.